Are you ready to die today?
A simple question, which can bring back fears and sorrow to you and also to your near and dear ones. No one is ever ready, I guess.
If you’re ready, then man, you’re at peace with your life and have lived it to the fullest and no matter what you got, more happiness or pain, you have accepted that and made your peace with it. You found your closure.
We are a moving vessel of thoughts, imaginations, hope, trust, promises, sacrifices, love, betrayals, mood-swings, double-crossings and many more. We have either done these things or have been on the receiving end and also the combination of both.
At the end, we gotta understand the natural fact that we are humans. We make mistakes, even blunders and desire for forgiveness. But does our desire meet what we deserve?
Sometimes we are forgiven but mostly we are punished, if not physically then torture or separation or something related. At that moment, we think it’s better to die and be done with all these. But, is it real?
If we die, we won’t feel anything, not the pain or the happiness. There will be no WE. No I. There will be nothing. Not even nothing.
So, if hard days are what you are going through, then talk it out. Share it with your closest of friends. Or better, write it down.
No one needs to know, if you are not okay with that. But, don’t keep it all inside. It creates mess. Chaos. Indigestion.
Stomach indigestion can be cured with some meds. But, mental indigestion can be fatal. It leads to drastic, life-changing decisions, which should be avoided at all cost.
See how powerful our little brain. The left portion, which controls our right half of the body and the right portion, which controls the left half of the body, all so wonderful and controlling us. For me, it’s like a temple. And if, some mental indigestion is to occur here, then this EVER SO BEAUTIFUL ABODE will be destroyed and you will never be satisfied.
The best way for that to NOT happen is accept the reality and be social. Talk about the problems and see others perspectives. We never know, someone else’s brain might be more beautiful than ours. And, we can learn from it, make our’s even more evolved. Treasure this beauty, this brain, it’s thoughts, this life. It’s your’s. Not mine, not anybody else’s. Make it beautiful inside and it will surely reflect outside.
We won’t get another life(may be I am implying for re-birth, but in that case also, the situations will be different than the present ones), so hold on to things and make it all count. Love, live, smile. Pain will come and go, just as the happiness. But, it all depends for HOW LONG you hold on to that feeling.
If pain comes, hold it, see it, feel it and then let go. So that, when you encounter it again, you can know, “Oh, this Pain! We have crossed path before and the last time was not so good. I will better skip meeting it this time”. See, it becomes so easy.
If happiness comes, hold it, see it, feel it, enjoy it and here, you can KEEP IT. In your heart, it will always be there as your fondest of memory.
Now, if you have found this kind of happiness and calmness, I think you are ready to die(or you won’t feel regret, if death comes and takes you away) but if not, then work towards this feeling.
When you will encounter, no one knows. But, if you think positive, then that moment will never be far.
You deserve to be happy and everyone desires to be happy.
Let’s try to match our desire and deserve to our best potential.
Wow. So well written and expressed. I think by far, this was the most insightul post of yours that i have read. At first glance, it can seem a bit obscure because there’s so much a reader can learn from it that it becomes all jumbled up in the mind. But, on rereading it, one’s able to digest the article in bits and pieces and realize that life is a mixture of everything and one aspect affects the other, and so on. Communication, happiness, peace, death. All are interrelated. Interesting thought. Maybe it’s obvious, but when put into words, it starts making sense. Maybe. I don’t know. But, great post. Makes one think! 🙂
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I, myself don’t understand this post truly 😉 Just wrote whatever came to my mind at that point 🙂 Will have to re-read once in a while to grasp the full meaning of what’s written 😉 Thank you Sheth for appreciating and finding some link to this post 🙂 It’s all inter-connected, that I can say. We just need to figure out how and make it better for our own good 😉
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I think this kind of happiness and calmness is not achievable by a human, there’s always something or the other depressing us.
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Yes, that is true. But, we can aim for that and hope to reach there. And if we end up falling a bit short of the aim also, then we are the winners 🙂 Nice thought, Gaurav 🙂
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Yes! Winners are those who feel they’ve won. Thank you, Darshith!
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See you’re rising so high, so fast and that’s good 😉 Keep rising 🙂
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Haha, it’s all thanks to you, my wise friend! 😉
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Mutually we soar high 😛
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Yes, we do! 😀
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Oh I liked this! You started off on a thought-provoking and scary note but nicely linked it up. We don’t realize our potential and what we have. Learning that control is important!
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Yes, we all gotta learn till the last breath 😉 Thank you for liking this thought 🙂
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Superb… That little brain is so powerful. Wat should we do if pain comes, happiness comes..feel and let it go. Today morning I posted Flow of Life and one thing is common -let it flow its own way. I learnt from ur post so many things like mess, chaos and indigestion… We have to learn control!!
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Now Uma, you made my day by your generous comment 🙂 But, our whole is a learning process and I am also learning whole lot many things with each passing day 🙂 Your morning’s post is simple with all the truth written in every word of it 🙂 Thank you for sharing 😀
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Ty too ☺…But it’s absolutely my pleasure..
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Last stage of Metamorphosis? 😀
This was a great piece
Though death aspect is something I refrain from digesting,left right brain and sipping in pain and tasting it equally as happiness is something I love. Every time pain gets over you and you got to know the right time to let it go before it consumes you completely.
So you are a left brainy ?
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Literally speaking, I may be left brainy because I am right handed 😉 Hope, this is how it is. I am not so sure 😀 But, the conclusion you made about the LAST STAGE OF METAMORPHOSIS is something to ponder upon 😉 I didn’t think it that way and now when I do, it all relates up. So, this could be the last stage of Metamorphosis 😀 And, I am feeling light and free when I am a less confused and know what I want and what others want from me 🙂 It feels good 😉 About the death thing in this post, I added due to some personal reason, which I think is not related but had to add due to attachment to someone whom Death consumed in an abrupt manner. Thanks again for all your support 🙂
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Sure Bro
One for all, all for One
You are the One 🙂
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We are the All 😀
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Even life without control is life. I believe we should hold it dear and try to spend it wisely, until the purse of life is empty! Thank you Darshith!
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Yes Will, that’s again another nice thought 😉 Being in control of yourself is the best, but if we can ACCEPT whatever we have and try to live upto the fullest and not bow down to some mere hurtings then that will be a life well-lived 😉 Thank you for your different thought, which I really like 🙂
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Thank you for the mental stimulation Darshith! 🙂
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The feeling is mutual 🙂
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Accepting the reality and being social is not so easy as you make it sound..
at least not for me.
Not at all.
There is always a new target to hit which steals my sleep.
Always
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Yes Maryan, not everyone has a problem towards the same thing. What you are good at, might be my undoing and vice versa. But, by being social I meant, talking to your own self and understanding yourself so that you don’t harm others and you. Accepting the reality is the simplest and the most difficult thing and there’s no way around it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙂
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Aha.. now it makes sense.. talking to your own self and understanding yourself so that you don’t harm others and you.
I have learnt something new there.
Thankyou
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Yes, if we aren’t able to control our own thoughts and our ownself, then controlling the situation(which is full of different people) is harder. Controlling yourself is the best thing always 🙂 Thank you for making me also learn something new 😉
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Very well inspired Darshith. . (y)
You are right.. I mean, happiness and sadness are two sides og a coin.. Which when flipped, only one can win (if it’s not Jay’s coin like Sholay 😉 )…
Lifr is a game which is always played between red card and yellow card… 🙂
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Yes brother, yellow card and the red one 😉 You a football fan? Yes, no matter what, we gotta accept the truth and move on. Time heals everything so its better to think about happiness more and live our life based on it 🙂 Cheers and sorry to say but I haven’t watched Sholay but I know the concept of this Jay’s coin 😛
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I’ll not believe that you’ve not seen Sholay…;) 😉 Must watch man… Watch it for us.. We may have your poetry with beautiful fragrance of friendship and love…
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Yeah, I have all the movies but just don’t feel connected to movies as much I feel connected to books and TV series 😛 But, will watch it soon enough 😉 Hope I can write something based on the movie 😛
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Series. . Which one??
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Many 😉 The Walking Dead, Sherlock, True Detective, Friends, Seinfeld, Hannibal, Orange is the new black, Game of Thrones and many many more 😛
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Good collection. . Almost same here. .
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Great (clap) anything new out there? I am starting to read more and dedicate less time to laptop since some weeks 😛 Need some halke-fulke series 😉
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How I met your mother. .
Superb season…
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Yes, missed it 😉 Legen.. wait for it.. Dary 😛 I used to be a maniac in college days and watch series like anything 😉
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Yup… 🙂 😛
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