
Options are good. But options to be bad is also bad and confusing.
I won’t say Β “Just Imagine” some kind of scenario and ask a remedy/solution because you may opt for stopping imagination and then it will be a waste of time for all.
This is reality. My reality. Everyone’s reality.
I want you to go to that phase of YOUR LIFE and provide your answers or some remedy.
There’s a case and you gotta decide.
Option1- You’ll become evil(to some) and others won’t want to be with you anymore. In short, 100% evil.
Option2- You’ll become evil(to some) but people will use double faces with you. In short, 20%-30% evil.
Option3- You’ll opt to die. You won’t be evil anymore because there will be no you no more.
By evil, I mean that you have to leave some important people behind in your past and make some crunch decisions.
What will you choose? Ever been into such a scenario?
Your thoughts would be appreciated π
May be this is just Monday blues thoughts in my mind π
Now that’s some pretty valid introspection π
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Thanks Mithai π sometimes sane thoughts also strikes π
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I am a very lucky soul to have very good sincere friends around who care share and love me so i dont think i can drop any one of them
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Yes, that’s a plus point of WP π Friends are really important.
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I think I don’t fit into any of those options. Usually when I cut people out of my life, it’s because they are being evil (or some other unnecessary traits) to me! But like someone once said, never worry about cutting out people out of your life. You don’t owe anyone anything, and you don’t have to be with someone who’s detrimental to your existence. At least, that’s what I follow. π
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Wow, this is something new & relative to me π I like the sound of the words and the concept π Good to know your thoughts Uday π
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Glad I could share some gyaan π
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Yes, glad I could learn some gyaan π
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You’ve got an amazing blog really π
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Thank you Aaira π
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I think you need to put more options π I surely can’t fit exactly in any of these π But as you have given only 3 options …then my option will be option 2 π For me its like if someone gives me bad vibes or giving me pain π then I slowly and steadily remove them from my list π As it said taking an extreme action in start will make the other person alert and then again they start nagging asking question why are you avoiding them,why don’t you want to meet them up …blah-2 …So the best is take the first step and slowly the others π And then one day just cut the strings π
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Ok you want to play safe, which is also good and recommended by most π I loved the way you mentioned, “One day cut the strings”:D I don’t know about more options. If you have any in your mind, then you can put it forward for all π Thanks Neerja for your thoughts π
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I will put my options one day out there on my blog π but right now don’t know when will this happen :P..So thanks for appreciating my efforts π
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OK Neerja not a problem π Good that I will get to see more options someday π Have a great day π
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π Thnx n same to you π
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I think being yourself is the best remedy in any case because in the end one is answerable to one’s conscience.
So, choose what ever you think fits you perfectly. The ones who really care for you would never use those double faces.
And get well soon, as being ill also fosters negativity.
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Yes, thank you Hargun for your wishes :)At the end, I have to answer my conscience regarding my acts. So, as you said, acting accordingly is the safest and the best way π How others see me should matter less than how I see myself π
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I would never want to be evil…but to err is human…and we are flawed creatures….and some situations force us to leave people..may be i’ll opt for option 3…will just vanish into oblivion till things settle on their own…and Darshith come out of blues!
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Blues? π I am so deep down with fever and still @ office π Yaar band baj raha hai π have some urgent work to take care of. Hoping to leave early. 3rd option is what I would never opt for. But, may be unknowingly 3rd option is by default selector, I guess π
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ohhh..Fever sucks! get well soon. It is not a good time for blues..think of good things and not evil things.. :).
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Oh yes, Accio Angels and good times π Hope they will come soon π
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I have no idea about Accio Angels…good times yeah sure they will :)!
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Accio is a spell in Harry Potter to pull things to you. Hence Accio Angels and good times to keep the evil away π
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oh I am not too deep into Harry Potter..but thanks for widening my knowledge on this..:D..take care..
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Always welcome π Thank you Roopam. Have a great day ahead π
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well you too..
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Nails are beautiful only to a certain length.. If it goes beyond, you have to eventually cut it off..
Cutting off the excess and unwanted will never ever make you evil.. It indeed just adds beauty, when you really know to what extent you cut off..
And what’s beautiful is only up to you and you are the only one to decide what you must have and what you must leave..
Have a beautiful life.. π
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Wow! This is mind blowing stuff π The way you explained is so so beautiful π I like it. I love it. Thank you Aadhirai for your awesome thoughts and I think I will heed to your solution π
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Glad to be of help.. π Be happy.. π
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You too Girl π
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100% evil in the real world, 100% sweetness in the virtual world π I somehow feel I just can’t fit in with people that surround me in my limited physical space. Great post! Take care, best wishes. Don’t be too blue about Monday, with each day passing, another Friday will be closer π
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Thank you Harmonie for your support π I can agree to some extent about 100% sweet in virtual world π but 100% evil in real world? That’s something out-of-the-box but acceptable π Yeah, next friday must be having hiccups from now as it is remembered a lot π
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π it’s the first time I liked, rather actually loved the use of the hiccup myth! I can be very evil, in the real sense too! I’m often described as being cold, aloof, mean, irritable and creepy-scary and silent to the extent of making things odd. I agree I’m socially awkward, but the cold, bad, etc. is not actually the real me, probably it’s just a defence, I sometimes am just afraid people take my generosity for granted and use me π So I prefer to be independent and cold. Anyways, I know it’s the worst way to handle life, but it’s the easiest at least!
Thanks to you too! π
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Wow, thanks for sharing your true you, the easy you also. At some point, we all are the same, I guess π I am also most of the same as you described yourself π I am just a bit socially active and like interacting with people. Being independent and cold is good but again at some point we need support and people and of course there are at least some people in front of whom, we don’t have to wear masks π We all evolve and become better with each passing day π Hiccups are good if you can give it to someone else π
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Certainly, I agree with you completely. No worries, I have a few special-someones π at least here if not beside me. π Hiccups, hmm, it’s quite bad when one gets them everytime they laugh like me! I wonder who misses me so much!?
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Just as I said, we never know whom we inspire at which moment π so you also never know who misses you at which moment π Cling onto these few special someone and life will be awesome π
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Sure, thank you so much. Feels great to know that after all I’m not too little or insignificant to inspire others! ππ
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You are inspiring. Trust me π You’re welcome π
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I do, thanks π
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