“The truth may be stretched thin, but it never breaks, and it always surfaces above lies, as oil floats on water.”
—ย Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra
Do you prefer a bitter truth or an easy/innocent lie? Truth’s harder for sure ๐
P.S. : Today’s pick is Hard to Love of Lee Brice. Awesome song & super awesome lyrics. I am also Hard to Love ๐
The Truth, Always! ๐
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Always ๐
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Truth always works as a push!! ๐
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Totally!
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Can I choose 50/50 to make everything balance? lol ๐
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You can choose anything ๐ But yeah, maintaining the balance is also important ๐
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hehe then I choose to have a balance of both ๐
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That’s the spirit :d Way to go ๐ But what we give is what comeback, so be prepared ๐
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haha so true ๐
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Will give it a listen…..and I will always go for the bitter truth.
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Ok madam ๐
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Nice..
Liked it….
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Thank you ๐
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You deserve it…. In fact many such likes!!
God bless…
Thanks for sharing..
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You made me smile ๐ We all contribute our best to the world, to the society. It is there, even though in the minimalist form.
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When you lie, you have to remember what you said so you can keep your story straight which can be tricky. The other person may never find out, however, there is always a risk they will. If they do find out, you will lose them forever most likely because lies hurt on the receiving end and people don’t tolerate lies much. I know it’s easier to lie on the other end but that is only a temporary solution. On the other side of the coin, if you find the courage (I know it’s the toughest decision to make…) to tell the bitter truth, start out by saying how hard it is to say what you need to say but you respect the person so much that you could never lie to them. At that point, you have their attention and you have softened the truth already. Just come out and say it knowing that it’s risky but it’s also the right thing to do. If it’s meant to be it will last, they will be more forgiving of you than if you lied. Give some time and space so they can process it and if they truly care about the relationship, they will come back. โค That's my opinion! ๐ Hope it helps ๐
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Hats off! Brilliant. The way to start and grab the attention towards the weightage & seriousness of the situation is the key ๐ Truth is just mere words and if said with proper amount of guilt and self-realization can do wonders ๐ Thanks Jen for your thoughts and great answer ๐
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I wouldn’t use guilt, I would say courage and vulnerability. It’s more positive. ๐ Self-realization, yes absolutely. Let me know how it goes, good luck! โค
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Yeah sure ๐ I am not facing the sword of telling a bitter truth or an innocent lie. It was just a curiosity to know others thoughts ๐ Courage & vulnerability sounds good ๐
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That’s great! ๐ I like the way you ask your questions ๐
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It’s a relief that no one is offended ๐
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How could anyone be offended by your beautiful insight? ๐
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You are kinder. Others are kind. It’s offensive to those with an unstable state of mind ๐ I was trying rhymes ๐
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You are adorable, you make me smile! ๐
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Adorable is a lovely word with a sense of attachment with it โค and I love it ๐ You too are sweet, Jen ๐ Smiles are good and that's the main reason behind this site ๐
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Mix of both for me, depends on the situation at hand…but i am more leaned towards practicality of the situation.
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I like that ๐ Nothing is generic so opting anyone would not be practical ๐
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I have to say…bitter truth for sure. It hurts less than lies, for me anyway. ๐ If I know the bitter truth then I know the information I need to be able to move on with my life. Lies don’t provide any closure.
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Yes, I love the closure concept ๐ What about you have to decide about telling a bitter truth & lose someone or an innocent lie & keep things good?
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Great question! ๐ I will answer this fully in a separate reply ๐
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Ok ๐
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Bitter truth, I guess. Are you writing around songs or quotes these days?
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I am writing on anything ๐ but am sticking to share 1 song each day related to the post ๐ What about you have to decide about telling a bitter truth & lose someone or an innocent lie & keep things good?
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Sorry, but I don’t get what is amp?
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This amp means “&” but as some use WP app & some use in browser, the changes are done correctly. It means AND ๐
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Oh dear, God!
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Bitter truth always!! It hurts less!
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OK. I got your view of the receiving end. What about you have to decide about telling a bitter truth & lose someone or an innocent lie & keep things good?
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Always the truth. Even if I lose the person. And I’m not lying. Truth always!!!! โ
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OK! Good that you stick to your words ๐
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Very interesting!! hmmm
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Thanks Lynn ๐
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Bitter truth. Easy lies often pile up quite high until they’re no longer avoidable.
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Yes agreed. Would you prefer to tell the bitter truth & lose someone than tell an innocent lie & keep things good?
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I’ve learnt from experience that if the relation is strong then it’ll survive the bitter truth. Otherwise, it was never meant to be. ๐
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Your experience shows some good, strong character ๐
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Thank you!
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I always want to know the truth.
Knowledge is power! I think we already know the truth but we don’t want to believe it at times. Knowing the truth but being fed an innocent lie…. Leaves me stagnate.
I have 1 sister who always tells me the truth even if it’s hard for her to do so.
My respect for her is beyond words. ๐
Love this post.
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Thank you Carisa ๐ Yes, truth serves the purpose better. But what if we are decide on whether we would prefer to tell a bitter truth or an innocent lie or not say anything so as to save us from doing the wrong deed at the very least.
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Ahhhh… I see.. Good question let me think about that one : )
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Take your time ๐
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You know what oil on water does? It quells the ripples and the waves….and kills the life inside. It’s amazing how things run into one another.
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Yes, that’s the exact resemblance to the bitter truth then. The truth kills the emotions we have for the speaking person as it’s the bitter truth and makes us think multiple times before being engaged in any way with the person. Or sometimes, as the person told the truth, we should also give them a second chance for their honesty, provided it’s sure that it won’t be repeated. Tricky business ๐ I didn’t know about the fact that you mentioned. Thanks Himanshu for the additional knowledge ๐
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Now I know why, why it was oil on troubled water.
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I thought you would join the dots. ๐
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Didn’t I?
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Yes, you did. In spades. ๐
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Thanks to my lexicon!
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I read this line by someone few hours back..
It’s not the lie that bothers me.. It’s the insult to my intelligence that I find offensive..
So bitter truth it is… ๐
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Wow, great angle to the point ๐
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Bitter truth hurts me and kills me inside but easy lie may save from these things. But at the end of the day we have to face the mirror of reality. So be honest no matter how harsh the truth is.
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Great explanation ๐ So, the end or the harsh truth is important than the sugar coated feeling of lies? With truth, pain and the feel of betrayal will come for free and deep.
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Yes we should have the strength to fave the harsh truth because lies are easy. But for how long can we just run away from facing reality.
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Nope, reality strikes. With it, hard times also and bitter truth will give hard times ๐ But, it won’t be a facade and all transparent and you have to accept it. Simple, yet difficult ๐
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True indeed!
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I have an easier time getting the the brutal truth. Don’t sugar coat it. Just lay it out.
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I like that Sonny ๐ That’s always better and preferable by most ๐
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No guess work that way.
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Yes, that’s the worst. With lies, ou never know that a particular sentence is true or a lie. So confusing, eh? ๐
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Indeed! I can’t lie very well anyway. People see right through me. Truth sets us free.
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Exactly the same with me. When I lie, I smile a bit and people get that he’s smiling as he thinks he lied to us & fooled us but the case is different ๐
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