It’s difficult, just like everything else. Or, it’s easy, just like everything else.
Henry Ford rightly said, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t — you’re right.”
With me, it’s the same. And I am sure, with you all, it’s the same too. But my inner heart says that most of us just fail to have a strong will power of DOING IT. To have a strong will power means to have a strong character. To have a strong character means to have a strong guidance throughout our life(childhood, youth, and next). To have good guidance means to have good people around ourselves everywhere(home, office, friends). So finally, to have good people around ourselves, we ourselves have to be good first. To be a good person, we have to be good at heart.
To become or remain good we have to tame our demons, regularly. It’s similar to an app’s update because new changes and features keep on coming. Or, new bugs like the Ransomware virus ruling the market since 2 days. So, it’s important to evolve and keep on taming our demons to stay good and then only good things will happen.
How to tame our demons? Good that you ask. First, we have to be strong mentally to face them, keeping aside our fear of facing and also the fear of losing. Then, we have to prepare for the face-off. What to do when we actually face our demons? What tricks we can play? Like Mohandas Ranchod Das’ words from the Movie ‘3 idiots’, i.e., ‘Aal izz welll’, we have to keep on reminding ourselves that no matter the outcome, it’s always in our favor or whatever happens, happen for a reason and we just have to try and forget about the outcome.
Taming is not an easy process and a time consuming one too but it definitely gives the expected result if tried regularly and with dedication. Many try to stop smoking or drinking or biting nails(yeah, that’s me!) but we fail the first time. Forget the first time, we fail the 50th time too. I have always failed in the case of biting nails but in the back of my mind, it’s there. I want to get rid of this bad habit and someday I will. When I will be mentally ready and then, I will let you all know about it.
We have to keep on fighting and trying to be better the next day always. That’s the key. One of the other reasons is in the below video. Feel free to have a look.
P.S.: Today’s song pick is All my Loving of Paul McCartney. I love this song and this guy and Paul is in Pirates of Carribean 5 movie so it will be interesting. See you soon and how are you all? Miss me? Want me to travel to a place? Want me to gift you a book? Please let me know in the comment section ❤
Smiles here & Smiles there 
Things are good here Darshith. Thank you so much. I moved from Bangalore, but keep coming, family still there.
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You moved out of B’lore? Where are you put up now? Do let me know when you come next to B’lore. Would love to meet you 🙂
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Sure sure.. would catch up next time 🙂
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“To have a strong will power means to have a strong character. To have a strong character means to have a strong guidance throughout our life(childhood, youth, and next). To have good guidance means to have good people around ourselves everywhere(home, office, friends). So finally, to have good people around ourselves, we ourselves have to be good first. To be a good person, we have to be good at heart.”
Love this para. Face your demons and tame them. What a thought. This one is masterpiece. I would really share this with people around me for awareness. Hope its is okay with you.
A great read. 🙂
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Please do that! I am glad that you could connect with my words. The paragraph is my copyrights but thoughts are collected from various sources. How are you, Shefali? Thanks for reading!
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Thanks Darshith, done already 🙂 🙂 I am doing good. Hope things are great at your end. If you ever need an ear, I am here.
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Hello! I read some of your latest blogs and it definitely seems, things are not going that good on your end. I think, it’s you, who needs an ear. Are you okay? Want to talk? I think you stay in B’lore also.
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It is such a beautiful topic! I mean we all wish to fight our demons, but how many of us truly can! The first step is to acknowledge that the demon is a demon. I love the sense of honesty with which you address your vlogs/blogs! Keep writing!
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Thank you, SD, for all the love and guidance regarding vlogs 🙂 Hope you’re doing well! I may visit Kolkata soon so I will let you know ❤
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Darshith, this is a wonderful blog about taming our demons! ❤ I've had to do the same on my end on different issues as you know and it's ok to fail, as long as you learn and keep trying to be better. Some days are easier than others, but c'est la vie 😉 (that's life) 😛 The quotes you chose are perfect 😉 and I really ❤ this line: "So finally, to have good people around ourselves, we ourselves have to be good first. To be a good person, we have to be good at heart." This is 200% truth. I like your video too, it says a lot and if people are offended easily then let them go, it's ok. Your sister is already very wise 🙂 Finally, the song you chose… I love, love, love it! You're welcome to come to Canada anytime, I'll meet you at the airport! 😛
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Awesome background music.
Given the situation, people tend to react differently. Some get offended when it touches a nerve, while others take it lightly. Taming the demons is as necessary as having them.
But in overall, a great post and even greater video. 🙂
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Thank you Bhai! Kaisa Hai? Yeah, I am trying to write more and more again. It feels as if I am writing after ages 😁
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You’re welcome.
Hanging on. How are you doing? Bade busy ho aaj kal.
It doesn’t look like you’re writing after ages. Always on point, as usual.
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