How was the weekend?
For us, it was a long weekend because of Diwali. But as always, the weekends rushes by at the speed of light and the weekdays drags itself at the speed of a snail.
We’re back again in our respective cubicles, doing our respective work, savoring our respective favorite coffee in our respective mugs 😀
So, as we’re talking so much about PERSPECTIVE, let’s talk in details.
We all have our respective perspective of Life 😉 As Dirish says, “We all have our own A take on Life” and that’s true!
Since last many a weeks, I have been learning things. Things related to perspective by talking to more people, by listening to them, by trying to see from their POV. It is helping a bit but it’s difficult to think from their perspective.
I think all my life(which is mere 26 years), I have been trying to look at everything from my perspective and never think about the other person. It may be because of several reasons. No one pointed this out to me earlier, hence I didn’t realize it. Now as I am being questioned, I am feeling cornered that how can anything be wrong when the perspective is correct?
POVs are a great way to express our thoughts and again a great way to get out of any situation, but when we realize that our perspective has been defeated and that other’s perspective is more purposeful and right, then what do we do?
That’s what I am going through. I am not saying, I am wrong or I am right. I am just saying that I don’t see my POV as the BEST anymore and that I have to consider other’s perspective too.
There’s a quote by someone very talented, “We judge those whom we don’t know, and if we don’t know them, why do we have to judge them?” 😀
I don’t know why there is so much of confusion within me nowadays that it’s started to make kind of a mess. I sincerely feel like the above quote by Mr. Lennon ❤ I love that guy and his words and his songs. This quote, in particular, is close to me. I feel like a loser and God, all at the same time 😀
Hope I can sort things out sooner rather than later. I think traveling will help me and I am doing that now on a regular basis. If any of my friends are available then with them or else I love to travel solo too ❤ What are your preferences while traveling? You like to pack everything with you or you keep it light? Do you call yourself a traveler or a tourist?
P.S.: I was reading one of the previous blogs of mine called REINS and I loved it. I loved the flow with which it was written. The connection, the beauty. Now when I sit to write, it’s all confusion and haphazard and not pleasing. Recently I am listening to an old favorite song Bubblin by Blue. If you’re in motivational talks then do subscribe to my YouTube channel @ Darshith Badiyani.
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You’re a very kind person Darshith 😊😊
I agree with NJ about challenging our own perspectives. Your blog is great Darshith because it can help open more minds out there. I’ve always said there’s 3 sides to a coin, heads, tails, and the edge. However, there’s many layers to each side as well so its good to hear and consider other POVS 😍😍
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Yo! 3 sides are important 😀 I will be fine to know that there are more than 3 sides to a coin 😀 I am all okay with learning more about life and being considerate to others ❤
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I think when you start challenging your own perspectives and thoughts its when you really start growing..our perspectives are generally based on the environment we have lived in till now 🙂 but when you start interacting with people of different domains and era and start considering their view points , you sometimes realize that you were thinking it all wrong all this time. So what I do in this situation is meditate over it all at my peaceful corners. It helps, but as you said traveling solo can also help 🙂 Try going out for brisk walks, that too helps 😉
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I have to consider the brisk walks you suggested 😀 Yaar, lag raha hai jaise all my life I ahve been wrong and I am much more confused but that’s okay! 😀 I will be back and this is the turning point of my 20’s life 😉 So, let’s see 😛 Kaise ho aap?
Brisk walks help big time😊 it happens things change after 25😉 welcome to the other side of the club🤣 I am all good😁 with same bones and flesh😎