Revived love..

Failed in the first attempt

By failing I mean

It didn’t last forever

Not the forever of Earth

Or the forever of my life

It was a mutual decision

And ways were parted

With a firm handshake

The feeling called Love

Was buried & chained

Deep inside my heart

Not to be untied ever

Love, now that’s dead to me

Days went

Adjusting became the only option

Months went

Same scenario

The stability of mind was also lost

Somewhere within

Then came the second chance

She helped me

She talked to me

She cared for me

She let me know her

She believed in baby steps

And baby steps it was

While talking to her

The chained Love

Had find a way to free itself

And was flapping its wings

Inside my stomach

I couldn’t stop smiling

I couldn’t stop thinking about her

Things were bright again

The feeling which

I had thought

Won’t be unchained

Was free & in full force

But as always

For limited time

The second chance

Was also gone

So now that’s

Failed Love – 2 v/s Me – 0

I know I scored

Good marks in both

But the ending was

Just fucking unbelievable

That’s okay

That’s life

Will give another try

Try to be careful

And open my love account

The end of first chance was

Drastic & needed a lot of time

And reading to get over

With the love feeling buried

Which I didn’t ever wanted

But the second chance

Revived the Love feeling

And this is something

To look ahead

I alone had couldn’t found

The love feeling within myself

I like to think that

I found love again with her help

But as it didn’t work out

May be I wanted love

So I found it

And irrespective of her or any other her

I could had found out love

Sooner or later

But I am grateful to

The second chance

For making me believe

That I will get many more chances

Life is all about chances

And utilizing most of it

When our turn comes

But till that I can enjoy the

Revived love within and around me

P.S. : Today’s pick is Delilah of Tom Jones 🙂 Happy Diwali to all and hence the above image for it’s 2-in-1 purpose 😀

Ignition of Metamorphosis..

Don’t blame the whole group of things.

We do that. I do that. But, we should not.

One failed love and we blame the whole of opposite gender. We stereotype things. C’mon, this ain’t the way it should be.

We all are different individuals and needed to be treated differently and uniquely.

Forget what happened in the past with whomsoever. Forget the pain and hurt.

Dive into the present. Make the present and the related future worthwhile.

Live in happiness with others and not in darkness alone.

We are social beings(Facebook and the other social media donot fall under this, so please leave them be). We need to interact.

I haven’t seen much of life. But, from what I have seen, life ain’t easy. I have seen failures of love. I have seen failure of friendship. I have seen failure of expectations. I have seen people submitting their lives to frustration. I have seen violence. I have seen the hatred for me in the eyes of my family. I have seen the jealousy and the thought of killing me in the eyes of some. I have been there wherever you have been. I have seen what not.

But man, this ain’t all life. When I close my eyes and think about my past 23 years and I can remember only the beautiful things. The smile on her face. My mother and sisters. My cousins. Friends and their teases. Special people who have guided me to be what I am today. My teachers. There are many who have taught me or shown me the bad way of life, so I can learn how NOT to be that and avoid that path. Learning to be grateful for the things that gives us pleasure and happiness and also accept the failures and being happy that we tried and learn from it.

So, hibernation and being alone is good. Just as a caterpillar in a cocoon. But, you gotta come out. Be a butterfly. Go through Metamorphosis. Fly with wings. Make everyone gaze at you in AWE 🙂

Make new friends or stick to the old ones. Have to forget or accept the bad times and embrace the good times.

Being happy for self is good. Being happy for others and with others, is the best. Try to be the best.

Time is crucial and if someone gives you time and importance, then TRY to consider that importance and make sure that it for the good for the caterpillar and that person may be the one who ignites the process of Metamorphosis.

The New, better YOU

Make things happens..

Can’t fly, then run..

Can’t run, then walk..

Can’t walk, then crawl..

Can’t crawl, then DON’T STOP!!

DON’T STAND!!

Find solutions, answers, remedies

but don’t stand and wait for things to happen..

Make things happen,

And while making things happen,

You will first crawl, then walk, run,

And finally your wings will be outstretched,

For everyone to look and awaken the angel within themselves!!