Is it stability or totally opposite?

Have you had ups & downs in your life? Don’t consider me as a fool for asking that because there are people who lead a simple, normal life & that’s a bliss for them.

But then there are others whose life is a roller coaster. Daily. Weekly. Throughout the year. Yes, their lives take new directions almost every single day. With such impacting events, people are bound to have a wide range of emotions.

When events are in favour, people feel happiness, ecstatic, joy. When against, they feel gloomy, sad, disheartened. Then there comes the feeling of saturation, that feeling of nothingness(is it a feeling too?).

So now, I have a simple question for you all. All you gotta do is share your thoughts in the comments section.

“Is it emotionally stable or emotionally unstable to feel every feeling that needs to be felt?”

Just to explain, if a person feels all the above feelings whenever required, will you call the person as emotionally stable or unstable?

Stable because he feels a wide range of feelings(Kudos! He ain’t dead from within).
Unstable because he allows the situation/events to make him feel different every-fucking-time.

About me, I would say that I am someone who seldom feels differently. For me, success, failure, achievements, shortcomings, all is mostly the same. I try to maintain a gravity so that outside events don’t have a bigger impact on me. But then, it’s not always possible. But then sometimes I want to feel, actually feel things, and then I am numb.

So, shall I call myself emotionally stable or unstable? Help me!

Smiles,
Darshith

P.S. :  Today’s song pick is Mirrors of Lil Wayne ft. Bruno Mars. Can looking at the mirrors help me(or anybody else) feel things better?

AtoZ challenge Day03 (C for C%$#*&)

Hello, people! How are you guys? I am back again after a Sunday break for the challenge 😉

A break from regular work always rejuvenates us & makes us work even harder after the break.

Welcome to the 3rd-day post of A to Z challenge. Today we’ll talk on the alphabet ‘C’.

“Smiles here & smiles there” has gone 1 level up from 1st April. I have made a YouTube channel in which I will share inspirational thoughts & other random yet relevant thoughts & also some of my personal experiences. You can subscribe to the channel @ Darshith Badiyani.

Options are good to have but when we just have to choose one among many, somewhere within we think that it would have been better if we had chosen a different word. My options with ‘C’ were Claim, calm, casual but I didn’t choose any of those. You can check out the video to see the ‘C’ word on which we discuss and this word is IMPORTANT in the life of each & every one of us. Without this word, there’s no life.

 

With this new channel, I hope to spread smiles here & smiles there & smiles THERE too 😀

P.S.: If you can connect to my videos then you can easily like/share/comment/subscribe to my YouTube channel to be regularly updated by videos. It’s the new version of Smiles here & smiles there. Today’s song pick is Count on me by Bruno Mars. My inspirational people from WP with ‘C’ are Chaitali & Chris. Chris is a great photographer & Chaitali writes on real life experiences, love, life & whatever 😛

I also forgot to mention other inspirational people from blogging arena who inspire me with alphabet ‘A’ and they are Archana(& Desh too), Alok, Adi, Ankita, Akiraa, Akhila. I may again forget to add people in their respective alphabet post. So I will add them in the upcoming ones. Thank you for being a part of my life 🙂

Decision: Right or wrong

Don’t you understand till now
There’s nothing right or wrong
You think whether choosing
Commerce or Engineering was right
Or whether marrying the Gurl
You love was right
Or whether switching jobs
Was right
There’s nothing right or wrong
You gotta keep on proving
That your decision is RIGHT
And once you stop proving
The decision automatically
Becomes wrong
You HAVE TO continuously
Prove that each of your decision
Of past is RIGHT
So that others and you yourself
Will believe your decision
Making abilities
No one likes when they are doubted
When their work is questioned
So we keep on proving
That whatever we speak or do
Or decide after thinking vigorously
Is RIGHT
It is all dependent on our
Efforts to prove it right
So good luck for the efforts 🙂

P.S. : Nothing on you by B.O.B ft. Bruno Mars 😉 Hope you all had a great weekend and the preparations for Christmas and New year are at top speed 😉