Taming my own demons

It’s difficult, just like everything else. Or, it’s easy, just like everything else.

Henry Ford rightly said, “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t — you’re right.”

With me, it’s the same. And I am sure, with you all, it’s the same too. But my inner heart says that most of us just fail to have a strong will power of DOING IT.  To have a strong will power means to have a strong character. To have a strong character means to have a strong guidance throughout our life(childhood, youth, and next). To have good guidance means to have good people around ourselves everywhere(home, office, friends). So finally, to have good people around ourselves, we ourselves have to be good first. To be a good person, we have to be good at heart.

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To become or remain good we have to tame our demons, regularly. It’s similar to an app’s update because new changes and features keep on coming. Or, new bugs like the Ransomware virus ruling the market since 2 days. So, it’s important to evolve and keep on taming our demons to stay good and then only good things will happen.

How to tame our demons? Good that you ask. First, we have to be strong mentally to face them, keeping aside our fear of facing and also the fear of losing. Then, we have to prepare for the face-off. What to do when we actually face our demons? What tricks we can play? Like Mohandas Ranchod Das’ words from the Movie ‘3 idiots’, i.e., ‘Aal izz welll’, we have to keep on reminding ourselves that no matter the outcome, it’s always in our favor or whatever happens, happen for a reason and we just have to try and forget about the outcome.

Taming is not an easy process and a time consuming one too but it definitely gives the expected result if tried regularly and with dedication. Many try to stop smoking or drinking or biting nails(yeah, that’s me!) but we fail the first time. Forget the first time, we fail the 50th time too. I have always failed in the case of biting nails but in the back of my mind, it’s there. I want to get rid of this bad habit and someday I will. When I will be mentally ready and then, I will let you all know about it.

We have to keep on fighting and trying to be better the next day always. That’s the key. One of the other reasons is in the below video. Feel free to have a look.

 

P.S.: Today’s song pick is All my Loving of Paul McCartney. I love this song and this guy and Paul is in Pirates of Carribean 5 movie so it will be interesting. See you soon and how are you all? Miss me? Want me to travel to a place? Want me to gift you a book? Please let me know in the comment section ❤

 

 

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We are all funambulists..

Creation of mankind

Done with tenderness

Each one of us

Blessed with unique qualities

A long path ahead

Sometimes bright

Sometimes dark

We find ourselves

On this unique yet same path

We are all funambulists

Walking that tightrope

Balancing work family life

Not getting time for own selves

Yes this path is difficult

Each step should be conscious

Making sure we don’t fall

Its trouble both the sides

Safest way is straight ahead

And balancing is more important

We achieve it via Friends

But all it needs

Is one small wrong step

That’s all is required

To wash the good deeds

Of all the previous steps

The distance seems longer

If we are afraid

And how could we not be?

With just the rope to walk

Concentrating on balance

No other support

Falling sideways out of the question

It’s difficult and this is the test

Not reaching the other side

But to take steps firmly

Take time to balance life

Destination is not running away

Make sure your patience also don’t run away

Don’t focus on the audience

They are just waiting to laugh

Once you fall

Instead make them awestruck

Concentrate on your path

Reach the destination

End the difficult yet possible walk

And hear those same audience

Clapping for the wonderful miracle

That they witnessed infront of them