Reins.

Aggression. Wildness. Control. Reins.

It’s all related to one another. We all want to have control over our lives, over the things that makes us happy, over our relationships, over how others make us feel. We want the reins of peace in our own hands. Always.

Most of our lives we wander in search of the reins but seldom find. We invest(read: waste) time for those reins. We give our sweat but fail. We may not accept but we are not always in control of our lives.

Why? Because there are many other factors that affect our lives. There’s job. There’re other independent thinking individuals. There’s ambition. There’s desire to reach those ambitions. As we can’t control those, not even for a single day, we think we can never control our lives.

There’s a difference, though. I will feel my life is not in my control when I am doing things I care less about. Why? Because at the moment, I am not interested in it. I say so because if I was interested, it would have been in my control. As I have no interest, I don’t understand it, it eludes me. It confuses me. It makes me feel inferior. It makes me feel recessive.

I-focus-on-what-I-can-control.

I want the control back. I want to hold the reins. But how? By developing interest, by showing eagerness, by trying to understand, I can gain control slowly. This is not rocket science. This is a simple art of understanding.

We don’t have to make things difficult. We have to find the easiest of solutions. It’s there either inside or outside of us. We just have to tune to it & a smile will find its way back home on your lips.

I crave for my smiles. But then my smiles are dependent on yours. So, being selfish, I have to make you smile, to smile myself.

P.S.: Today’s song pick is My song knows what you did in the dark of Fallout boy 🙂 Three cheers for holding our life’s reins. Happy weekend!

Untangling

I am not able to read most of your posts.

I am not able to post myself.

Shall I blame anybody/anything?

No, no one is to be blamed

I am just being occupied

By some other priority stuff

But I don’t ever forget the wonderful

People out here

And now I was reading a post on SLEEP

Yes, I can read about sleep

And having a good 8-hour sleep

Is not much of within my power nowadays

I realized that SLEEP is important

For Us & for God too

God or higher energy, whatever you believe in

Why?

We need sleep

So that we can stay away from these

Worldly possessions and be sane

And God needs us to sleep

So that He can make sure

That our problems are lessened

When we wake up

We are like a tangled knot

Confused and feeling as if

We’re in a maze

And God tries his best

To untangle us

And make us free

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P.S.: Today’s pick os What makes you beautiful of One direction. Keep smiles with you 🙂

Monday madness

Can I take
1 from you
2 from him
3 from them
Make it 4
Divide in 5
Pack into 6
Go to 7
Deliver 8
Bill for 9
Make profit 10
Wink like 11
Die like 12

Does this make
Any sense
To you babe
Because it
Didn’t made
Any sense
To me
And hence
I leave it to you
To make me understand

P.S. : This is what Mondays can do to you 😛 try to skip Mondays 😉 how? Born on Tuesday and die on Sunday 😛 Become a phoenix 😀 Today’s song is Don’t treat me like a fool of Blue 😉

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The chain of extinct.. Hope to break the chain in future..

Blogging and writing has become a part of me since months.

But, in the past, there were people and things, which were also a part of me. But, now I don’t think about neither.

Will blogging also become extinct to me?

Do you people feel the same kind of confusions of life?

What I love the most is the blogs(no doubts) but also the way people share their thoughts/views/suggestions in the comments section and the author appreciates it and shows gratitude. So I would say, comment section is the best here 😛

What are your takes on blogging? And your future in it? 😉

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