Work-Life balance in Software jobs

Yo!

I am into software and I love to explore what my future would be if I stay in the same career for forever 😀 It’s similar to the question which we all are asked in interviews like, “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” 😉

FYI, sometimes, not always, I go to the restroom in office and read epub 😛 If any of my colleagues are reading this, trust me, my stomach is always upset with me for not eating more food 😛

So, this week, while I was in the restroom, reading a post,  I could hear 2 other colleagues talking. They are senior(read married)  😉

Senior1: Hey man, how are you?

Senior2: I am good. You?

Senior1: I am good too. How is everyone at home?

Senior2: Everyone is good. I think my son has forgotten me!

Senior1: Why? What happened?

Senior2: Because when he wakes up, I am getting ready for office. By the time, I leave for the office, he’s taking bath. I come to the office, he goes to school. When I return from the office, he’s already asleep.

So, now you know, what it is to be married and work in a software company. Good luck to me 😛 Don’t worry, I ain’t getting married anytime sooner 😉

P.S.: Yo! How are you, folks? I know, I have been writing more blogs than making more vlogs? Is something wrong with me? Of course not! It’s just that, I want to rejoice writing more than videos. But, the videos are coming 😉 Maybe 2018 will be full of videos 😛 If not done yet, then check out my YouTube channel, Darshith Badiyani. Today’s song is Ain’t no love in the heart of the city by Bobby Bland.

Lure the hero

Heroes are our idols. We all want to be like them. Let it be Spiderman, or Ironman, or Superman. We try to imbibe their good characteristics in us and love to broadcast it to all.

Heroes emerge during the time of need, when the times are difficult and when the situation demands them to take a stand. It’s guaranteed that a hero will announce himself then because that’s what heroes do, come to the spotlight so that others don’t suffer unnecessarily.

All the villains know how to bring the hero out from the crowd. They lure the hero out by cornering them(not in reality) but creating such circumstances or hurting/troubling the innocent and out comes the hero.

I mentioned Spiderman, and Superman earlier because they are SuperHeroes and we all want to have such powers but we have to real and practical and hence this post is about HEROES minus the Super 😛

So this proves that heroes are so easy to lure. In this world, what we all lack is, we don’t know that we all have that hero within us. We lack belief. We lack the faith in ourselves. Once we understand this, heroes will be everywhere, and no villains, and no luring the hero out. We have to wear the badge of a HERO on our sleeves and not let it be something that only resides within and what we dream of always. We have to be a Hero in reality and then only it will be smiles here, smiles there, and smiles everywhere ❤

 

P.S.: Today’s song pick is We don’t talk anymore of Charlie Puth. The beats of this song is something that I love ❤ What are the latest songs that you are fond of? How is 2017 treating you? Doing A-Z challenge?

Better things are coming

Not every plan is executed.
Not every promise is fulfilled.
Not every love is forever.
Not every apple is rotten.
Not every risk is failure.
Not every smile is happy.
Not every burden is forced.
Not every day is Sunday.
Not every memory is yours.
Not every moment is perfect.
Not every dream becomes reality.

But we humans should be so hopeful to think that whatever is coming and whatever is there in store for us, should be good and something that makes us happy 🙂

P.S.: Today is sunday and it is perfect 😀 today’s pick is I turn to you of Cristina Aguilera

Gone are the days..

Gone are the days of drinking from the same glass
Gone are the days of whole night of love making
Gone are the days of staring at each other among the crowd
Gone are the days of stealing kisses in parties
Gone are the days of sending intimate mails when apart
Gone are the days of your arms around me
Gone are the days of your beautiful lips on mine
Gone are the days of fighting and patching up
Gone are the days of smiles shared and tears cared
Gone are the days of me tucking your hair behind your ear
Gone are the days of you kissing my weird nose and making it blush
Gone are the days of me apologizing for my silly mistakes
Gone are the days of exchanging sorries and hugging each other
Gone are the days we used to love
Gone are the days of the beautiful time spent together

 
 

Memories are all we have
They will also start to dwindle
After some months and some years
You won’t remember me in your mind
But, I can just hope
That deep in your heart
You will never forget me
How I amde you feel
How I could make the butterflies flutter
Everytime we talked and
Everytime we met
How I cared for you
Al these are my hopes
Reality, on the other hand,
Can be different
For better or worse
And I should and
I will accept that
But, I never
Regreted any single day
Or any single moment
I spent with you
Now, we just gotta move on
And, hope that our hearts
Will be connected to each other
By the thinnest of thread
of Love and never be apart

I assure you..

You gladly enter my heart

Latching yourself in

You want to feel the heaven

You want to be my Queen

I assure you, my lady

My reality will be your dream

You define your own FEAR..

Your dream–

You think of doing 1

In the manner of 2

To get a result of 3

For which you’ll have a life of 4

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The reality–

What happens is 3

In the manner of 1

To get a result of 4

And you become 2

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After regular upsetting realities

all you can do is leave it all up to Fate

Leave it all in a heartbeat

Don’t FEAR.. Or atleast let this FEAR define you..

Instead YOU define FEAR for yourself..

Is it Forget Everything And Run..

Or.. Face Everything And Rise..

Choice is yours!!

Game of tiptoeing..

When I was a kid,

I used to tip toe go to kitchen,

During the noon time,

When my mother was asleep,

So that I can have some cream biscuits,

Without her knowledge.

But in the evening,

She calls me and takes my class,

For eating those biscuits on a regular basis.

She didn’t changed the place of those biscuits,

Because she loved my tip-toeing and having those biscuits,

And thinking that I can fool my mother,

Who know me more than I know myself.

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Now, the table has turned.

I loved her beauty, her smile, her truthfulness,

And this time, my mother tip-toed,

And went to meet her and said,

To leave me and go far away from me,

Because my father don’t like her,

And my girl left me, without telling me,

And I thought that it was fate and we weren’t meant to be a together,

But then when I came to know what had really happened,

I cursed my mother, my girl, everyone, even God,

Because then I hated this game of tip-toe,

This game of pretendness.

This game of keeping cards close to your chest,

This game of not putting everything on the table,

This game of thinking that others are fool,

And you are the only smart guy.

I hate this sham!!

Reality of Death!!

“Well I am Death, none can excel,
I’ll open the door to heaven or hell.”

Death, the cold feeling of emptiness comes sooner or later and takes what matters the most, Our Soul.

Today I realized that with the death of a single person in a family, the whole family dies.
This feeling of Death makes us so devastated as if all the good memories and achievements of life meant nothing.
We just want 1 extra single year, extra month, extra day, extra hour to set things straight.

Criticism, failure, insecurities are reality-check, but Death is in itself a Reality.
A Reality we want to avoid. A Reality we want to forget about. A Reality we don’t want to exist. A Reality which we don’t want to be real.

I want to tell you all, may this day never come when you have to face this Reality, but I know that I can only say the hollow words, because deep within we both know that it will come and set us free for good.
So, don’t wait for this Reality to come, so that you can cry and shed tears for your dear ones and feel guilty for all the things left undone.
Talk to all your close people, share happiness, spread smiles, make wishes, make effort to complete these wishes, make a better world for all, make someone happy daily, make friends, make family.. These small yet important things matters and are the things which help us face the Reality and move on.

You gotta live. So, why not for those who matters to you, who depends on you.
Accept the Reality, and we can only hope that our dear ones are in a far better place.

Cry as much as you can, no restrictions in it. But, make sure you don’t cry for the same reason twice.
Smile as much as you can, but make sure you smile for every small reason you have.

Live life,
Darshith.