Why I sleep more now?

I was scared before
That I might miss something or the other
While I sleep

I was concerned
About whether the world will run fine or not
While I sleep

I was skeptical and doubtful
Of the capabilities of people not able to live without me
While I sleep

I was a fool before
And I still am
But now, I am a fool
Who try to sleep more
Because I know the world will run fine
No one will miss me enough
That they would want me to be updated and to be awake
And definitely, others can live without me
Because I live without them when they’re having dreams

This was a simple lesson
Which I should have learned in my childhood
But it was not so
But I am glad that I learned it 2 years back
Since then, I try to sleep more
And sleep proper 7-8 hours a day

Not sleeping properly gives me a headache now
It was the opposite before
How the tables have turned
And it is all because of how my thoughts have evolved
Yes, evolved!
Sleep was just the example
We can replace sleep with
Calmness, smiles, peace of mind, self-love
And we can see a difference in all
If we’re willing to change our thoughts and mindset

P.S.: Let’s try to give proper attention to own self and we’ll see a changed and an evolved and the best version of us. Good day! Today’s song is Let me go by Hailee Steinfeld. And, how are y’all? 😀

 

Pain in the head >> pain in the ass

Yo!

Making my stance clear, I have not suffered much health-related pain in my life, yet. The major and difficult chunk is yet to come(read old age-related health issues).

Still, from my amateur experience, I feel that headache is so dangerous and unsettling. It doesn’t let us sleep, eat, talk, or do any other thing properly.

Since my childhood, I have had very fewer interactions with a headache and when my father used to have a headache, I used to think, headaches are not that bad to not eat dinner or talk with anyone and go to bed early and feeling this crazy level of uneasiness.

Now, for me, the jolts of headaches are kind of regular and those times are unnerving. Nothing seems to make sense except getting rid of this pain in my head which is far more than all the pain in the ass wrt people and work.

Growing up makes us realize some things, either for better or for worse. A headache is definitely for the worse.

Sleep was something which always worked for me in almost every situation. Fight with someone, sleep on it. Mood off, sleep on it. Having problems understanding things, sleep on it. But with a headache, sleep doesn’t come so easily and so I have started relying on vomiting.

It’s not something that I can control but mostly it is because of internal chaos and the best way I have found is to get it out and then headache seems to pass by slowly and sleep starts coming my way.

Was this a rant? No!
Was this an informative blog? Definitely, no! Have I ever written anything informative? 😂
Was this just to eat up your time and make myself feel superior? C’mon! Now, don’t make me spill the truth 😋

P.S.: I watched a movie named Road to Sangam and it was good. It’s about how people from different religions (Hindu and Muslim) come together following the path of non-violence set by Mahatma Gandhi. This blog’s song is Girls like You by Maroon 5 ft. Cardi B. As always, new motivational videos coming on my YouTube channel, Darshith Badiyani 😉 And, I am reading How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. It is brilliant and better things related to the book are coming soon via blogs and vlogs. Also, credits to http://www.menshealth.com for the featured image.

What you do in the weekends..

Seriously! You have come to this post to know what to do in the weekends?

Nice! I will share what I do and I would like to do 😉

What I do in the weekends–
= Spend quality time with friends
= Roam near about B’lore because we are new to this city and one can always get to see beautiful girls around 😛
= Go to parties and pubs and talk to strangers(read gals) and be-friend them 😉
= Make motivational videos because it’s almost impossible to make them in the weekdays
= Do office work because work never ends 😦
= Watch some movies(because I am not watching TV shows anymore)

And yes, the weekend is done and dusted and bids adieu far earlier than expected 😞
Tell me, what do you do in the weekend? No matter weekend or weekday, all we gotta make sure that we have a good night’s sleep and for that, we gotta toil hard, watch out for our dear ones, try to spread smiles, and feel content no matter the situation we are in. No doubt, tomorrow will definitely be more good, more beautiful, more bright, more awesome, just like you, so try to make your today the best.
Yo! No shave November is on 😉 what is up with you, guys? Enjoying life? Enjoying weekend? Keep smiling and spread smiles and if you want me to make videos on any topic, do let me know 😉

Feel free to check out my other videos at Darshtih Badiyani 😉

Those good old days

I miss those days
When I used to write daily
Well, almost daily
Last year I wrote 284 posts
And may be 32 must be reblogs
And 2 were guest posts
So 250 were written by me
Woah, that’s huge for me
And I miss those days
Because this year has been different
Because I have been writing limited
Due to office work and other stuff
But I miss publishing thoughts
Which I write regularly in my phone
But I am not getting time to edit them
And publish them
They are all in my drafts and
I hope I can publish them soon
I feel as if time is less
Or maybe because I am sleeping more
Like 7-8 hrs daily 😦
I hate sleeping that much
I love 5-6 hrs of sleep and
Use that 2 hrs for stuff
Which I love doing
So hopefully I can be the same old boy
Who sleeps a bit less
And then I can post more
And try to reach somewhere near to
200+ posts this year
And there are still almost 10 months remaining
And a long way to go
And this is how I rant
In a free-verse style
So you people won’t be bored(hopefully)
And would like/comment/share it 😀

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P.S.: Happy weekend and keep smiling and I will be back soon (read sooner) 😉 Today’s pick of song is Remember the name of Fort Minor ❤

 

Those 6 & some of mine

Stories are so good to listen
Just remember those days
When our Granny used to start with
ONCE UPON A TIME
And our wild imagination
Would take you to hills
And mountains and landscapes
And kingdoms and queens
And prince charming to cruel King
To talking animals to aliens
To anything and everything
And now when we have grown up
With Granny gone and when with friends
We share our experiences and it NEVER starts with
ONCE UPON A TIME
But it starts with
YOU KNOW WHAT
I had my first beer on that day
Had my first kiss, first intimate relation
My first job & first salary
And first break up and
How I learned to move on
How I handle stuff even when things are bad
How I show I am mature to my friends
How I still behave innocent in front of my siblings & parents
How professionally I handle my clients
And how carefree I am with friends
And I love being carefree
Because friends won’t judge
I can open my heart to them
Tell all the weird stuff to them
And instead of judging
They will share their own weird stuffs
And the night will pass
And we will end up comparing
How weird we all have been
And then end up thinking
Why didn’t we share these before
And it was good to have some OUR time together
And then came the sun calling
Asking us to sleep
So that we can go to work later
And hoping we will have such
Wonderful times again with one another

 

P.S.: To all my friends and the wonderful bond we share
Let many more beautiful nights come
And we embrace our weirdness together ❤

Yo! No song for today. Sorry! But, I will share this video. It’s of Friends re-union ❤

Untangling

I am not able to read most of your posts.

I am not able to post myself.

Shall I blame anybody/anything?

No, no one is to be blamed

I am just being occupied

By some other priority stuff

But I don’t ever forget the wonderful

People out here

And now I was reading a post on SLEEP

Yes, I can read about sleep

And having a good 8-hour sleep

Is not much of within my power nowadays

I realized that SLEEP is important

For Us & for God too

God or higher energy, whatever you believe in

Why?

We need sleep

So that we can stay away from these

Worldly possessions and be sane

And God needs us to sleep

So that He can make sure

That our problems are lessened

When we wake up

We are like a tangled knot

Confused and feeling as if

We’re in a maze

And God tries his best

To untangle us

And make us free

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P.S.: Today’s pick os What makes you beautiful of One direction. Keep smiles with you 🙂

Day of illness..

When you are down with ill health

When your spirits leave you

When your smiles vanishes

When ache is all you feel

When no food entertains you

When you eat only for meds

When your skin becomes dull

When your voice becomes inaudible

When your immunity becomes weak

When bed is your whole day company

When reading also don’t feel good

When everything loses it’s purpose

You remember that someone

And wish she was here

To hold you & care for you

To take you in her arms

And make you feel that it will be okay

Things will be bright and beautiful again

To bring back the smile on your face

To make you feel alive

To make you feel love again

To let you sleep on her lap

To caress your hair and help you sleep

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More than I thought I could..

I want to sleep beside you. You resting with your head on my stretched left hand and reading a book. I ask you to read loudly so I can also listen. I listen attentively to what you say. Then I stare at you while you keep reading from the book. You start feeling uncomfortable. Your voice starts to stammer. The more awkward you feel, the more my lips curve in a naughty smile. You look at me & ask, “What did I just read now?”. And I swear I didn’t hear anything she said or asked and looking into your eyes, I say, “I think I love you more than I thought I could and you smile through your eyes and your cheeks and then met our lips. Book kept aside & time to tend to the burning heat inside.

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The Blind Ride

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Last night my friends(I am using friends & not colleagues) planned to go for an unplanned trip. Yesterday evening we were just talking outside office with a cup of tea in our hands & thought that some trip especially a night trip will be good to re-invent the mojo of friendship. Going to any place in the morning is not possible with Mr. Sun spitting fiery rays 😀 and the traffic also 😉

So, it was decided that yesterday night itself, we will leave to a near by Marine Drive and return back today morning and the total journey would be near about 180 km.

We were total 8 friends in 4 bikes, ready to embark a journey which we didn’t even comprehend in our minds that it was gonna be one of the most memorable & perfect trip for us.

Selfie before the beginning of the trip

It started normally with dinner at a hotel. At beginning, all bikes were scattered some going far ahead & some going at their economy speed. Then we stopped at a gas station and got the tank full.

From there onwards the magical night started. The road ahead was even with less or no traffic. It was not at all about destination for us, but the trip. We just wanted to have a great quality time and we did get that for sure.

We reached the Beach & oh boy WHAT A VIEW IT WAS!! Best view !! The waves striking the shore and the splashing sound. It was as if Angels are whispering their plans of our future to us. It was Heaven on Earth 🙂 Never have I felt such profound peace…

And I saw someone run past me shouting at the top of his voice with his shirt in his hand waving in the air 😀 That was a great scene indeed 😉 He was my friend & my partner for the ride of the trip. He was so excited that he literally ran towards the water and he was all pumped up. All others were also in high energy and we all started the sprint to reach the water. There was no one in the beach. Basically speaking we were the OWNERS of the beach 😛

Reached the waters, panting for air and all on our knees & laughing seeing the tired faces of one another. Then I shouldn’t mention this here, but we ran the whole length of the beach in the minimum clothes on us. I wont exxagerate.
Till this moment we thought that we have had all the fun of the night. But, nah-huh.

We went more ahead & this time without lighting the headlights of our bikes. All bikes going parallely in the middle of the night, dead silence, nothing visible also because it was all cloudy. Nothing visible. Just in every 3-5 seconds, one of the riders was switching on the headlight for a fraction of second to make sure, nothing dreadful was ahead.

The main fun was what we always saw when one of the rider switched the headlights for that fraction of seconds. We saw disco lights glare up for that duration when headlight was on it. It were the direction markers and road dividers with neon coatings giving us the feel of a disco. Wow!! The scene was excellent. It felt we are in a game, riding & could light up the environment at will. We were riding blind bitches is what we kept on shouting at the top of our voices.

The ride was blind all thanks to the clouds that kept on hiding the Moon behind it & its light from the Earth. It rained then. We got wet & kept on riding at a controlled speed. But had to eventually stop. There we talked & gossiped & listened to music. Rain kept on pouring hard & we were having the best moments of our life.

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Moon almost behind the cloud

We went ahead more 30 km to another beach & had tea there. Went to a temple & then returned back. It was all morning,  Mr. Sun warming for spitting 😀 and the Moon was still there in the sky.

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Moon still in the sky in the morning

Slept for a little time. Back to office because its Friday 😦

You must be thinking We could had gone on friday night only but some of my friends had other plans.
It was a great night. All close to the heart & cherished.
The peace, the silence, the calmness, the live-in-the-moment, the breeze, the life, the love all was there in the heart of ours.

Hope, we all get that kind of feeling once in a while.
And, if possible don’t try the Blind Ride as its dangerous also if some vehicle/animal comes all of a sudden. We ourselves faced it, but in our case it was next to nothing.

Night is nigh, wish sleep was here 😀

Cheers to Weekend & Cheers to Life, Dear Friends !!