The epitome of care

She is love

She is caring

She is God

Only in the visible form

We all have felt

The care she showers on us

My Mom is sick

Suffering from fever

And I, the irresponsible child,

Am at work

And I called her now

To know How is she

And while putting the phone down

She said, “Khayal rakhna”

And I was all stunned

She’s ill

She has a fever

She is weak now

And still, she says to me

Take care

And I wanted to rush to her

And go home

And give her a hug

 

P.S.: This was a post which I found in my draft dated 28th Jan 2016. It’s been more than 2 and a half years that I did not post it. But, I wanted to post it because I can still feel the rush of emotions whenever someone close to me is sick or hurt and I am helpless to do anything worthy for them. Hope things are fine with everyone. See you! This post’s song is Come Alive again by Pacman. For motivational videos, check out my YouTube channel, Darshith Badiyani(new videos coming soon). And, I will be going to home in October so then I can hug my Mother India 😀

Relax!

Relax!

That is not that important!

Nothing is so urgent

So, please, relax

Rejoice

Smile

Laugh

Everything can wait

All work can wait

Nothing has to be finished today

By keeping our health and peace at stake

No, it’s not, ever!

Feel good that we’re okay

And, breathe

Feel our hands

Our fingers

Close our eyes

Stretch our body

Be focused on ourselves

Re-energize

Be good to ourselves

Then only good things will happen to us

And also around us

And, on top of that,

It’s almost the weekend

So, let go of being busy always

Take time out to breathe

For ourselves

For those whom we love

Who matters to us

And, have a good weekend!

P.S.: I have been listening in loop to a new song, Scars to your beautiful by Alessia Cara. I am trying to stick to 1 blog/week. It’s not that difficult, but, I have to pretend that I am busy 😀 I am planning a trip this month, hope that it pans out. Happy June! How are my fellow bloggers? I am also watching THE OFFICE series. It’s brilliant! Love all the characters 😛

The trouble tree!

A carpenter was hired by John to restore an old farmhouse has just finished a rough day on the job. A flat tire made him lose an hour of work, his electric saw quit and now his ancient truck refused to start. While John drove him home, carpenter sat in stony silence. On arriving, he invited John to meet his family. As they walked towards the front door, carpenter paused briefly at a small tree, touching the tips of the branches with both hands.

When opening the door, he underwent an amazing transformation. His tanned face was wreathed in smiles and he hugged his two small children and gave his wife a kiss. Afterward, he walked John to the car. They passed the tree and John’s curiosity got better and John asked him about what he had seen him do earlier.

‘Oh, that’s my trouble tree,’ Carpenter replied. ‘I know I can’t help having troubles on the job, but one thing for sure, troubles don’t belong at home with my wife and the children. So I just hang them up on the tree every night when I come home. Then in the morning, I pick them up again.’ ‘Funny thing is,’ Carpenter smiled, ‘when I come out in the morning to pick them up, there aren’t nearly as many as I remember hanging up the night before.’

P.S.: This is a not a copyrighted work of mine. I found it online and just shared it here so that others can learn from this. I will also start to implement it in my life. Happy weekend! ❤

Source: https://llerrah.com/troubletree.htm

Others are important

Do you think

That others are important?

Are we important?

Am I important?

And important how?

And important why?

I cannot motivate myself

I definitely cannot motivate you

How am I going to motivate others?

It’s all a sham!

All bullshit and rubbish

The world doesn’t work like this

The world works? I doubt!

It’s all myth!

The happiness, the sadness, the truth

Only pain is true

We’re here for suffering

All suffer we will

So, when we’re suffering

Instead of WHY ME?

Look around and try to

See the disable people

The poor

The unfortunate

The fools

The lost

And feel  that you’re doing OKAY

You’re not doing AWESOME

You never will

But sometimes DOING OKAY is AWESOME

And maybe

Just maybe

Help those others

And this is how it is

Seek inspiration from others

And give it back

Hence it proves

I am important

You’re important

Others are important

We all are!

Feel important!

P.S.: Just because I don’t like to talk much or love to be with myself or respond to the comments late doesn’t mean I don’t like humans or my life is not going well. I am all fine and I am listening to good, new songs. Latest is Late Goodbye by Poets of the Fall.

Actually, I had made a video on “OTHERS” in July 2016(I am awesome!) and it’s here.

Importance of others:

Learning from mental molestation..

The day comes

The night goes

It never ends

The circle of life

I need it to stop

Because there’s no

Breathing time

We live like cyborgs

I don’t think we even live

It’s like we’re wasted

For things that won’t be missed

I crave for my smile

I crave for my happiness

But it never comes

Elopped it stays

So, I turn my attention

To your smile and care

And all I am served is

Mental Molestation

I can’t take it anymore

I am all sore

Just let it pass by

Till the water is head-high

Then I will oppose

I will leave

Because I don’t believe in making people understand

If they had to, they would have

If they didn’t, they won’t ever!

Hence taking all the mental molest I can

It makes me strong

It makes me, me!

P.S.: I couldn’t have been listening to any other song in loop apart from Whatever it takes of Imagine Dragons at this time. How are you, peepal? 😀 I am reading Daring Greatly recently and it’s awesome. FYI, I am reading at the speed of the slowest snail 😛

Because of someone like me.

Love is something which is close to my heart

It is also close to your heart

It is a universal feeling

Felt by all

Loved by all

Missed by all

Adored by all

But then, there are the lucky ones

Who get to live their whole lives

With the love of their life

Oh! So beautiful!

What a great sight to see them together always

I feel jealous

I feel guilty for not having an ever-lasting love

I feel guilty for letting the chance go by

I feel dreadful for knowingly saying  goodbye

Because I know I won’t find someone like you

EVER!

But I had to be selfish

I had to think about me first

Because I also won’t find someone like me too!

P.S.: How is this free-verse poem? Please do let me know. Have you ever been in such a situation when you had to prioritize yourself before your love? How did you cope with this? Happy last 2 days of February ❤

Permanent love being sidelined

It rings

And rings

And keeps on ringing

Without anyone paying any attention to it

And then it stops

All silent again

Still silent!

The screen shows 3 missed calls

from MOTHER INDIA

Look at my courage!

Daring enough to not receive her calls

Definitely, I am on the fire line

But I know that she will understand

Me being busy

She might think that either I am asleep

Or busy doing something important

I was and I was not

I could have received her call

But I was busy with the worldly love

The temporary love

The physical love

In the arms of someone

I know just for some weeks

And avoiding the permanent love

The only love I know before my birth

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Credits: Google

 

P.S.: Yo! How are you? I am back again to the writing world. I went to Orissa for holidays and had a great time. Will share pics in the next blog. Where are you guys holidaying? Summer is here and so is appraisal cycle in work. How is your work going on? You like appraisal cycle? What do you think can be made good in it? New vlogs coming up @Darshith Badiyani. This blog’s song is THE BIG BANG by Rock Mafia ft. Miley Cyrus.

My new old mantra!

My new old mantra is, “Travel and feel happy.”

Go to places you have not been before or never thought that you’ll ever go.

Go solo, go in small groups, know friends better, make new friends 😀

What’s your mantra? How to live life better? Plan for the weekend?

Mental FUCK!

Yeah! I am awesome!

Just so you know(I actually don’t have to say this), anyone can imagine anyone else to have a physical fuck. Yeah, we imagine others and make ourselves satisfied and happy and sometimes tired 😀

But, to actually go ahead and have a mental fuck, we need to have a good, strong bond with the other person. We need to know about how they act and react to particular things and then when you feel agreeable to that, you’re ready for the mental fuck.

I would like to state that as per me, mental fuck is more enriching and deep than a physical fuck and also, it is difficult to attain.

Now, as you’re here, you can think of someone, I guess, with whom you have had a great bonding and then you would have liked to have a mental fuck or maybe you already did.

Now don’t tell me that you didn’t enjoy it. Don’t tell me how it ended, if ever it did but I can definitely guarantee that it was worth it all.

There’s nothing brilliant compared to a good, mental fuck where the thought process of both the individuals allign and you nourish the significant time spent together.

If you have had one, you would definitely relate to this post. If not, I hope that you would have one soon. So, go ahead, be vulnerable, and express your thoughts clearly and see how it unravels.

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P.S.: No songs because there’s a new video 😀 This is a video which I made 4 months back but I uploaded it recently. “Blood is thicker than anything” on my YouTube channel, Darshith Badiyani.

How difficult is it to think positive?

So! Yes, this time it’s not ‘Yo!’ 😀

I think I have met many people in my life. All kind of people, almost all. What hurts me to express is I am bad at expressing and then how people think negative things and stay with all the negativity.

I have been thinking for some days that how difficult is it to think positive, to think good things, and to understand that almost everything is in our mind. So, if we start to think happy, we certainly become happy, eventually.

I know I am writing this post from my perspective and hence I think it is easy to be happy and positive, but, I think I am ready to learn the difficult things of life and try to understand life from other’s perspective.

I think how we are brought up as a child has a larger effect on our thought process than anything else. But, how we see the world and feel the world and try to understand things is also important. It’s not that the same solution applies to all the problems and scenario and hence we gotta think differently for almost all the cases and try to find the best solution for each scenario individually.

As all people have a different name, and to call them, we use their respective names, similarly, to find a better relationship with any particular individual, we gotta use an unique solution to make it work in the best manner.

I can write numerous things about what to do to think positive but I won’t do it because if that worked, then I wouldn’t have been writing this post here. Things don’t work. People don’t think positive and hence there has to be something underneath this. Not only THEIR MENTAL LIMITATION but something more other than that. I want to figure that out so that we can try to neutralize that factor.

So, please tell me when you face difficulty to think positive. Under what circumstances do you think that you’re all drained of the positivity in your life and start to think negative? I know it’s difficult to express ourselves but we’re at that point in our life that we have to help ourselves or else it’s all downhill from there. Please help me, help you.