Don’t blame the whole group of things.
We do that. I do that. But, we should not.
One failed love and we blame the whole of opposite gender. We stereotype things. C’mon, this ain’t the way it should be.
We all are different individuals and needed to be treated differently and uniquely.
Forget what happened in the past with whomsoever. Forget the pain and hurt.
Dive into the present. Make the present and the related future worthwhile.
Live in happiness with others and not in darkness alone.
We are social beings(Facebook and the other social media donot fall under this, so please leave them be). We need to interact.
I haven’t seen much of life. But, from what I have seen, life ain’t easy. I have seen failures of love. I have seen failure of friendship. I have seen failure of expectations. I have seen people submitting their lives to frustration. I have seen violence. I have seen the hatred for me in the eyes of my family. I have seen the jealousy and the thought of killing me in the eyes of some. I have been there wherever you have been. I have seen what not.
But man, this ain’t all life. When I close my eyes and think about my past 23 years and I can remember only the beautiful things. The smile on her face. My mother and sisters. My cousins. Friends and their teases. Special people who have guided me to be what I am today. My teachers. There are many who have taught me or shown me the bad way of life, so I can learn how NOT to be that and avoid that path. Learning to be grateful for the things that gives us pleasure and happiness and also accept the failures and being happy that we tried and learn from it.
So, hibernation and being alone is good. Just as a caterpillar in a cocoon. But, you gotta come out. Be a butterfly. Go through Metamorphosis. Fly with wings. Make everyone gaze at you in AWE 🙂
Make new friends or stick to the old ones. Have to forget or accept the bad times and embrace the good times.
Being happy for self is good. Being happy for others and with others, is the best. Try to be the best.
Time is crucial and if someone gives you time and importance, then TRY to consider that importance and make sure that it for the good for the caterpillar and that person may be the one who ignites the process of Metamorphosis.