How difficult is it to think positive?

So! Yes, this time it’s not ‘Yo!’ 😀

I think I have met many people in my life. All kind of people, almost all. What hurts me to express is I am bad at expressing and then how people think negative things and stay with all the negativity.

I have been thinking for some days that how difficult is it to think positive, to think good things, and to understand that almost everything is in our mind. So, if we start to think happy, we certainly become happy, eventually.

I know I am writing this post from my perspective and hence I think it is easy to be happy and positive, but, I think I am ready to learn the difficult things of life and try to understand life from other’s perspective.

I think how we are brought up as a child has a larger effect on our thought process than anything else. But, how we see the world and feel the world and try to understand things is also important. It’s not that the same solution applies to all the problems and scenario and hence we gotta think differently for almost all the cases and try to find the best solution for each scenario individually.

As all people have a different name, and to call them, we use their respective names, similarly, to find a better relationship with any particular individual, we gotta use an unique solution to make it work in the best manner.

I can write numerous things about what to do to think positive but I won’t do it because if that worked, then I wouldn’t have been writing this post here. Things don’t work. People don’t think positive and hence there has to be something underneath this. Not only THEIR MENTAL LIMITATION but something more other than that. I want to figure that out so that we can try to neutralize that factor.

So, please tell me when you face difficulty to think positive. Under what circumstances do you think that you’re all drained of the positivity in your life and start to think negative? I know it’s difficult to express ourselves but we’re at that point in our life that we have to help ourselves or else it’s all downhill from there. Please help me, help you.

 

That light

Brighten up

Enlighten

Tearing the darkness

Came light

Into my life

To introduce me

To happiness

And it was

Again pitch black

But the happiness

Was lingering behind

As it had left it’s

Powerful ingredients

Within me

But as everything has expiry

The ingredients also died

Leaving me helpless

Hopeless feeling less

Still I tried to survive

Tried to find happiness

But not all things fall

Right into our life

We gotta struggle for

Some things, some people

I tried finding THAT LIGHT

And it kept on

Eluding me

I was fucking frustrated

Then I found a simple

Solution which Is not that simple

Why to wait for THAT LIGHT

To grace me with it’s

Presence

Instead I preffered

Being THAT LIGHT myself

For others & me

And spread happiness

P.S.: Today’s pick What hurts the most of Rascal flatts 🙂 A very Happy and sleepy and satisfying weekend to all ❤

Evil & options..

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Options are good. But options to be bad is also bad and confusing.

I won’t say  “Just Imagine” some kind of scenario and ask a remedy/solution because you may opt for stopping imagination and then it will be a waste of time for all.

This is reality. My reality. Everyone’s reality.

I want you to go to that phase of YOUR LIFE and provide your answers or some remedy.

There’s a case and you gotta decide.
Option1- You’ll become evil(to some) and others won’t want to be with you anymore. In short, 100% evil.
Option2- You’ll become evil(to some) but people will use double faces with you. In short, 20%-30% evil.
Option3- You’ll opt to die. You won’t be evil anymore because there will be no you no more.

By evil, I mean that you have to leave some important people behind in your past and make some crunch decisions.

What will you choose? Ever been into such a scenario?

Your thoughts would be appreciated 🙂

May be this is just Monday blues thoughts in my mind 😉

Stormy night!!

When things aren’t going my way,

when the wind is blowing against me,

when I need a solution, I encounter more problems,

when the pressure keeps on building,

when I feel suffocated, nauseated, locked inside a cage,

when my shouts & yells aren’t heard by any,

when I pinch myself, hoping that it’s a nightmare,

when I have to go through the stormy night,

when I can’t take anybody’s help,

because the people who used to help me,

are themselves the creators of this stormy night.

I can’t sleep, even if I want to,

time is getting stretched with my thoughts,

sweat is on my brow, just a hint of it,

my brain is working at a crawling speed, if not standstill,

I have to find a solution soon,

and bring an end to this stormy night.

Outside, it’s all cool breeze,

crickets chirping, dead silence of a calm night,

Inside, it is a battle, storm, chaos, helter skelter,

and I don’t know how to tame this storm,

I just want this night to end,

end it soon enough without any more problems,

and, come tomorrow morning I will be a hero,

an amateur, who stood his ground, to prove his worth,

a sailor, who had a troubling yet successful voyage,

a fighter, who despite the odds, won.

Wish implementation was easy!!

Someone has rightly said that “The world sees our presentations but don’t care about our intentions but God sees our intentions and don’t believe in presentations.”

What do we educate ourselves for?
What’s the next step after education?

Let me stop myself now, or else I will write such a long list of questions, which is not only haunting our minds on a regular basis but also have been prevailing since so many centuries.

Let’s go one by one for TRYING to find some solution or a round about way for some of the questions.

Learning is all important for the children. I myself have been in debt of Education which I have received in my life and its one of the prime reasons for the happiness I have in my life.

I love reading, learning, educating myself, gaining knowledge.. But when it comes to implementation of the learning.. ummmm.. I think.. and think.. and later!!

May be I am afraid of failure.. or afraid of trying atleast.. or being judged by the people.. I don’t want to implement and be given scores on my learning..
But, is there any way out of it?

There is always one way out of every problem.. Its to find a solution, and it can only happen when you are eager to face the problem head-on and not just try to sneak out from the deadly sight of the problem, because it’s not gonna help you any.
The sooner you face the problem, the easier for you.. The more late you do, the more the fear feeds on your guts and grow and the more dwindling you find yourself of confidence.

Implementation is not all rocket science, so chill, its easy(ultimately)!!
At first, it needs your attention, then your interest, then some hard work,,, here, you start getting acquainted and then Voila, you’re the Implementer!!(if Beginner’s Luck favors you, then you’re the BEST IMPLEMENTER!! 😀 )

Its all easier said than done. But, I am myself going through this and trying to implement my learning into something good and presentable which will not only be appreciated by others but also be my own work of evolution.

That’s how we evolve from an amateur to a pro and beyond that. It takes time but we all evolve. Some steeply, some gradually and some eventually.
So, steady yourself, take a deep breathe and HEAD-ON!!

Keep evolving,
Darshith.

P.S.: Being in the learning phase for as long as possible is great, but once you start implementing, you will realize that you can also learn while implementing.