Is it stability or totally opposite?

Have you had ups & downs in your life? Don’t consider me as a fool for asking that because there are people who lead a simple, normal life & that’s a bliss for them.

But then there are others whose life is a roller coaster. Daily. Weekly. Throughout the year. Yes, their lives take new directions almost every single day. With such impacting events, people are bound to have a wide range of emotions.

When events are in favour, people feel happiness, ecstatic, joy. When against, they feel gloomy, sad, disheartened. Then there comes the feeling of saturation, that feeling of nothingness(is it a feeling too?).

So now, I have a simple question for you all. All you gotta do is share your thoughts in the comments section.

“Is it emotionally stable or emotionally unstable to feel every feeling that needs to be felt?”

Just to explain, if a person feels all the above feelings whenever required, will you call the person as emotionally stable or unstable?

Stable because he feels a wide range of feelings(Kudos! He ain’t dead from within).
Unstable because he allows the situation/events to make him feel different every-fucking-time.

About me, I would say that I am someone who seldom feels differently. For me, success, failure, achievements, shortcomings, all is mostly the same. I try to maintain a gravity so that outside events don’t have a bigger impact on me. But then, it’s not always possible. But then sometimes I want to feel, actually feel things, and then I am numb.

So, shall I call myself emotionally stable or unstable? Help me!

Smiles,
Darshith

P.S. :  Today’s song pick is Mirrors of Lil Wayne ft. Bruno Mars. Can looking at the mirrors help me(or anybody else) feel things better?

The ultimate champion

I don’t feel the same
Writing anything in
WordPress app
Laptop has it’s charm
Similarly one can say
Paperbacks has their
Charm than ebooks
And I can’t argue with
Them because we all
Are born with our
Own perspective
And our own views
And hence not anything
Is all right or all wrong
It all depends on
The people involved
And the situation they
Are in and
Life can be easy
And bearable
Blaming someone
For something
Won’t make things better
Understanding the situation
And convincing yourself
That whatever happened
Is for the good
Will make things
Better than the best
And if you’re lost
And not finding
A way to a situation
Surrender to it
Surrender to something
More powerful
To your passion
Of writing
Of painting
Of reading
Of sports
Of cooking
Of anything
Which comes from your heart
And that passion
Will pave a new path
For the troubling situation
You’re in
Easier said than done
Facing situations
Is the ultimate thing
Hiding and running away
May postpone it
But the climax
Is when you’re
There with a bandanna
And pumped up
Ready for the face off
Breathing deep
And focused
And in some few moments
The situation surrenders
And you’re the ULTIMATE CHAMPION
As the enemy showed the white flag
Without the fight
Stand up
For yourself
And smile with all
You don’t lose anything
For trying at least..

P.S.: Happy weekend beautiful souls ❤ Faced anything like this before? Feel free to share and I am extremely sorry I am not able to read your posts but will be back to reading sooner 🙂 Today's song choice is Hello by Adele ❤

Gradually less confused..

Shall I go watch a movie?

Or shall I go to a park?

Or better some friend’s place

Or spend time in solitude

Or… forget it

Who cares?

I am all confused

I am always confused

Why is it so??

If I am confused

What to do with one extra

Free hour I got today

How can I make such big decisions like

Whom to marry?

What to do next?

What I want to become after 10 years?

Or say 30 years?

Wow, how will I decide all this?

But I know

All those will happen

In some miraculous way

If I invest these little amount

Of extra time in a productive way

I will be something

Definitely less confused

Than I am today

Which is my most priority aim

To become less confused

With each passing day

Try to make sense of things happening

Try to understand the things happening

Try.. Just try

Failure or success is important

But not compulsory

But trying is compulsory

Trying to know myself better

By knowing myself

I will know you better

Knowing you better

I will know myself better

And by that I will be less confused

Helping each other

Helping one another

Become less confused

Desire & Deserve.. Wish they can overlap..

The road ahead is a mystery

You don’t know anything about the road

It feels good to start a new journey

Hoping to see new faces

New places

New people

And it also feels a tad scary

As you have never been down this road before

It may bring you chaos

Blunders

Life long troubles

But you know you will gain experience

You will get to know yourself better

And this is what life is all about

Knowing your ownself

So that you can know the world we live in

But the forward journey is difficult

As compared to the return journey

Because while moving forward

We don’t know what’s waiting

For us ahead

We just have to find it out

For our ownself

Have to deal with problems

Have to find the correct path

To reach the desired destination

But mostly in Life

The desired destination &

The deserving destination

Don’t overlap

And that causes pain

And struggle & craving

For returning back to

The cocoon

This return journey is difficult

No doubt but

Easier than the forward journey

Because we know the path of return

And we got the experience

Of the forward journey also

To help us bring an end to the

Whole journey and have a smile on our face

Either for the successful journey

Or for the heartily attempt you had

To seek your desire and make it what you deserve..

Where are we headed??

To tell the truth, “I don’t know!”. But, I am not wasting much time on that question. Infact, I have quite a few other questions lingering in my mind. I won’t bother you with all those because I know you also have a list of yours and don’t want to add anymore questions to it.

So where exactly am I headed??

The destination is important to start the journey. But, after the beginning of the journey, the journey should be the destination. To make the journey unique, memorable, worthy, happy, success, true, wise you have to forget the former destination. You will reach the former destination, if you make your later destination a perfect one. And it can only be made perfect, if YOU live it by your own rules, following your own principles, listening to your heart, making kind decisions, living a blessed LIFE.

No matter how tough situations come, remember you are TOUGHER, WISER, STRONGER, STANDING, SMILING, DIFFERENT, POWERFUL!!! These tough situations define you, build you, develop you, evolve you, rise you. These tough situations make you the YOU!

Come harder days, come tough challenges, come dark nights, come quite moments, come cornered times & along with all come BETTER YOU!!

Keep fighting,
One of the fighters.

Time- Silent Reminder!!

Time is important, we all know, but how?

Do you have time in life? I, for sure, have none!!
Whenever someone asks me about doing anything, the ever-ready answer that’s always there on my lips is “I don’t have time.”.. Then depending on the priority of the tasks, I, of course, change my answer which means I have time 😀

But, seriously, I wonder whether I have time or not?? And then I come to the point that, yes I do. Of course I do.
We all are blessed with exact 24 hours time in a day. The way in which we utilize these common 24 hours daily, defines us.

The difference between a successful man and an unsuccessful man, is how each use their 24 hours.
So, my dear friend, time is very important, so please don’t take it lightly or waste it by doing the things which don’t hold much value in life.
Invest time in the things which are REALLY important to you, and “Time will gift you the feeling of happiness & peace in the long run.”

Time, is just like a silent reminder, which doesn’t has to shout to tell its importance in our lives.

A man is what he does and not what he says he’ll do. Don’t leave things for tomorrow, because tomorrow never comes.

Respect Time,
Darshith.

Wish implementation was easy!!

Someone has rightly said that “The world sees our presentations but don’t care about our intentions but God sees our intentions and don’t believe in presentations.”

What do we educate ourselves for?
What’s the next step after education?

Let me stop myself now, or else I will write such a long list of questions, which is not only haunting our minds on a regular basis but also have been prevailing since so many centuries.

Let’s go one by one for TRYING to find some solution or a round about way for some of the questions.

Learning is all important for the children. I myself have been in debt of Education which I have received in my life and its one of the prime reasons for the happiness I have in my life.

I love reading, learning, educating myself, gaining knowledge.. But when it comes to implementation of the learning.. ummmm.. I think.. and think.. and later!!

May be I am afraid of failure.. or afraid of trying atleast.. or being judged by the people.. I don’t want to implement and be given scores on my learning..
But, is there any way out of it?

There is always one way out of every problem.. Its to find a solution, and it can only happen when you are eager to face the problem head-on and not just try to sneak out from the deadly sight of the problem, because it’s not gonna help you any.
The sooner you face the problem, the easier for you.. The more late you do, the more the fear feeds on your guts and grow and the more dwindling you find yourself of confidence.

Implementation is not all rocket science, so chill, its easy(ultimately)!!
At first, it needs your attention, then your interest, then some hard work,,, here, you start getting acquainted and then Voila, you’re the Implementer!!(if Beginner’s Luck favors you, then you’re the BEST IMPLEMENTER!! 😀 )

Its all easier said than done. But, I am myself going through this and trying to implement my learning into something good and presentable which will not only be appreciated by others but also be my own work of evolution.

That’s how we evolve from an amateur to a pro and beyond that. It takes time but we all evolve. Some steeply, some gradually and some eventually.
So, steady yourself, take a deep breathe and HEAD-ON!!

Keep evolving,
Darshith.

P.S.: Being in the learning phase for as long as possible is great, but once you start implementing, you will realize that you can also learn while implementing.