Why I sleep more now?

I was scared before
That I might miss something or the other
While I sleep

I was concerned
About whether the world will run fine or not
While I sleep

I was skeptical and doubtful
Of the capabilities of people not able to live without me
While I sleep

I was a fool before
And I still am
But now, I am a fool
Who try to sleep more
Because I know the world will run fine
No one will miss me enough
That they would want me to be updated and to be awake
And definitely, others can live without me
Because I live without them when they’re having dreams

This was a simple lesson
Which I should have learned in my childhood
But it was not so
But I am glad that I learned it 2 years back
Since then, I try to sleep more
And sleep proper 7-8 hours a day

Not sleeping properly gives me a headache now
It was the opposite before
How the tables have turned
And it is all because of how my thoughts have evolved
Yes, evolved!
Sleep was just the example
We can replace sleep with
Calmness, smiles, peace of mind, self-love
And we can see a difference in all
If we’re willing to change our thoughts and mindset

P.S.: Let’s try to give proper attention to own self and we’ll see a changed and an evolved and the best version of us. Good day! Today’s song is Let me go by Hailee Steinfeld. And, how are y’all? 😀

 

The difference in Pizza toppings

Yo! How are you?

You like pizza? You love pizza? Pizza is love ❤️

So ever notice that the base/size of the pizza is the same and based on the different toppings, the price of the pizza varies. This is not something new. It’s an old theory.

Just like the vessel and the contents in it. Usually, we fall for the vessel but the content is important. Based on the best toppings, the price is more. Similarly, based on the pure and positive content of our thoughts, satisfaction in life is more.

So, what you waiting for? Go and hog your favorite pizza but remember to add good, positive, creative, classy content in your thoughts too.

Bbye for now! Enjoy the fooking weekend 😎

P.S.: This post’s song is Connection by One Republic and what are your plans for the weekend? New videos coming soon in the YouTube channel so do check it out @ Darshith Badiyani. Pic credits to taste.com.au

How difficult is it to think positive?

So! Yes, this time it’s not ‘Yo!’ 😀

I think I have met many people in my life. All kind of people, almost all. What hurts me to express is I am bad at expressing and then how people think negative things and stay with all the negativity.

I have been thinking for some days that how difficult is it to think positive, to think good things, and to understand that almost everything is in our mind. So, if we start to think happy, we certainly become happy, eventually.

I know I am writing this post from my perspective and hence I think it is easy to be happy and positive, but, I think I am ready to learn the difficult things of life and try to understand life from other’s perspective.

I think how we are brought up as a child has a larger effect on our thought process than anything else. But, how we see the world and feel the world and try to understand things is also important. It’s not that the same solution applies to all the problems and scenario and hence we gotta think differently for almost all the cases and try to find the best solution for each scenario individually.

As all people have a different name, and to call them, we use their respective names, similarly, to find a better relationship with any particular individual, we gotta use an unique solution to make it work in the best manner.

I can write numerous things about what to do to think positive but I won’t do it because if that worked, then I wouldn’t have been writing this post here. Things don’t work. People don’t think positive and hence there has to be something underneath this. Not only THEIR MENTAL LIMITATION but something more other than that. I want to figure that out so that we can try to neutralize that factor.

So, please tell me when you face difficulty to think positive. Under what circumstances do you think that you’re all drained of the positivity in your life and start to think negative? I know it’s difficult to express ourselves but we’re at that point in our life that we have to help ourselves or else it’s all downhill from there. Please help me, help you.

 

I am happy that I witnessed it..

It’s so pure. The love of grandparents for the grandchildren.

Today morning, I was in a bus going to work, as regular weekdays. I was super sleepy(early morning feeling) and then I saw a kid looking at the line of vehicles at a traffic standing at the side walk. She was hardly 2 years old and probably try it understand, ‘Why so many buses?’, ‘ Why the rush?’, ‘Why the traffic?’, and what I loved the most, was her grandpa’s reaction to it.

He was a white bearded man standing there at the side walk with her, holding her hand. In fact the girl was holding the grandpa’s index finger. All the while, the grandpa was standing still and letting her feel things and analyse her thoughts. The grandpa was not rushing the kid to walk or distract her train of thoughts. On the other hand, the kid was gladly absorbing life and then decided to walk and unknowingly initiated the walk and off they went both.

What a sight it was to see the patient grandpa giving the power of present to her grandchild and the way she bossed the moment. Loved it.

Have you ever felt something so unique that brought a smile to your face and opened up a new level of love and bonding in your life?

Grandfather and granddaughter

Life changing event

Show me one person in this world who do not want to travel to a different time period and I will praise the lad and do nothing else 😛

At least, most of us would have thought of traveling to a different time period and go to that particular time to meet somebody or to see the discovery of something eventful. Something life changing for Earth. I also have the same wishes. Wishes seldom come true if you don’t give your hard work and dedication to it. You need to give these as inputs so that they will be processed and you’ll be shown the output.

“Easier said than done” is such an apt proverb to describe the above. We all can give suggestions and our point of views(POVs) but those may not be correct for others.

Similarly, I was in a discussion today with a close friend of mine(let’s name him Alex)about the events that changed the course of life on Earth. He said that it has to be World War 2. And for a brief period of time, I believed him. All the words and images from our class 8 History book of Hiroshima & Nagasaki along with the destruction faced by millions of people rushed into my mind. What can be more crucial than this historical destruction faced by humans?

There was some silence & I thought about what else can be that life changing. And I said, “What you said about the WW2 is spot on but that was a loss. It was negative. It was life changing for many millions, yes! But the thing which has a positive impact is always more powerful & has an upper hand on the things which are negative.”

He said, “Like what? Positive in what sense?”

I was not sure what I was gonna say but I just blabbered, “There are 2 worlds. One, what we see. Two, what we wanna see. What we see is the reality. Many others have an impact on it. It is the least self-controlled world out there. To survive, WE HAVE to keep on adjusting from day 1 till the last day. It doesn’t adjust to our needs, we have to do the adjustment. Always.”

Alex listened & I continued, “About the second world, it’s never the same. It’s always changing. It takes new shape & new form based on our present thoughts. Present mood. It’s the imaginary world. Think of ‘Inception’ movie. They had imaginary world too. Just like that but we don’t have to be asleep to visualize that. We just need to close our eyes and the world will take shape as per our mood.”

My friend, who was wearing a confused look on his face stammered, “So so so.. What? How is this life changing for EARTH”

Having a wry smile on my lips, I said triumphantly, “This imagination, escape from reality, for the most beautiful world is life changing for an individual. He time travels. He goes to a far off place by staying in reality. Imagination makes it possible. One doesn’t need a time machine to travel to places. Books, movies and discussion like this make it possible. With imagination, we can go in the past or in the future just like time traveling. In time travel, you cannot be in multiple time phases, you either are in the past or in the future. But imagination has an upper hand and that’s because we can be in multiple time phases. While imagining, we are mentally in the past or the future but physically we are in the present. And that is the answer to your question. If we can TRY to match our imaginative world with the reality. It is life changing. This is such a process that has to be done on an individual level and then it can be worldwide. Possible?”

“I would definitely praise your thinking and I can almost agree to it but there are no facts to support it & hence I would not be totally IN for your idea.” said Alex, nodding.

“I definitely require your belief to work with but then I also need to be sure that I can work with my thoughts and I think, I can. So this is life changing for me. This conversation was most definitely. But now I am gonna try to make my reality & imagination match & hand you your facts to think upon.”

Alex said proudly, “OK! I will be waiting for that day because it will be a double achievement for me because of the facts I will receive and the success you’ll achieve. I have a request for you, though. Do not stop imagination after reaching there once.”

I said jokingly, “Don’t worry, my friend. After reaching, may be my imagination will show me a new different world. Then it’ll be time to achieve that.”

“So there is no need for a time machine now,” joked my friend, “none whatsoever.”

And I gave him a thumbs up and we went to the nearest coffee shop to have his favorite cappuccino so that if not satisfied, he can imagine it and make it more perfect as per his imagination(a competition to Starbucks 😉 ).

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Credits: Google images

This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.

P.S.: I have a sincere apology for all. Lately, I have been occupied with some extra office work and I am not getting ample time to read your wonderful posts or even reply to the comments you have posted in my previous blogs. Once I get some free time from work, I will reply to comments and read your enchanting thoughts. So please pardon. Today’s song pick is Take your shirt off by T-pain

Come & go

Blessings come and stay

People who bless may come & go

Kindness lingers in the air

People who initiate it may come & go

Smiles dwells in out hearts

People who spread it may come & go

Wisdom remains intact to our thoughts

People who pass it may come & go

Memories will always stay behind

People in them may come & go

Happiness may play hide & seek

People related to it may come & go

Sacrifice ain’t the skill of weak

People enduring it may come & go

Creativity leaves a good impression

People opposing it may come & go

Someday this whole world may face extinction

But it will never have any tiny bit of progress

Without women

Happy International Women’s Day 

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P.S.:  Today’s song pick is We are young of Fun ft. Janelle Monae ❤

Respect the difference

Music
Is love
You can argue
Or you can agree
I won’t judge
It ain’t my character
I know what it means to me
It may mean something different
To you and I would
Accept your meaning
Of music and rhythm
So don’t try to force
Your meaning onto me
And make me follow that
Different people
Different perspective
Different meanings
Even though same words
Same situation
Same feeling
And I would beg you
Don’t restrict this to music only
Respect the meanings
Of other’s words
Other’s feelings
Other’s thoughts
We express things differently
Because we feel differently
Respect the difference

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P.S.: Today’s pick is Counting stars of one republic 😉

It’s all about muses..

Ideas
Thoughts
Muses
Non stop
Asking me
Begging me
To pen them down
Looking at me
With those soft, delicate eyes
Just like that of a kid
Who cries for attention
And I surrender
Saying
“Okay! Let me get my pen & paper.”
But they say
They can’t wait for pen & paper
They don’t want me
To pen them down
Instead they want me
To feel the emotions first
They teach me to live
They teach me to love
They teach me to be alive
And then once I learn all those
They say that
Now I deserve to write
On all the things I learned
But then I have a doubt always
“Can I write on everything I feel?”
I mean EVERYTHING
And silently my heart whispers
Everything can’t be expressed
But everything can be felt
I feel blessed and lucky
To feel everything
Because without
These ideas and thoughts
And these muses
I can’t be who
I want to be

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This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggersby BlogAdda

P.S.: The pick of this weekend is In the end of Linkin Park. No the video is of that of the one made by The unusual suspect which 183 movies and their dialogues to make the whole IN THE END song. So have a great watch ❤

Sharp & blunt

Thoughts remains
Within me
What I share
With you are ideas
But how I share
And what I speak
Are words
The most powerful
Weapon we can hold
And using them
To pray for someone
Or to curse someone
Is totally on us
And on our thoughts
So choose how we want
To use our weapon
Use the sharp side
Or the blunt side
Blunt side are the prayers
Which leads to blessings
And happiness
But with the passage
Of time and
Utter dedication
Sharp side are curses
Leads to chaos
And unnecessary problems
And these things
Start working
As soon we wish for these
Choose wisely
Wish wisely 🙂

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P.S.: Merry Xmas all 🙂 Today’s pick is Reinforce love of  Lee Ryan 😉

Hate waiting

It struck me @ 12:17 am
I love this kind of timing
Personally, I hate waiting
Waiting for reply from someone
Waiting for something to start
Sitting idle makes me crazy
So I have to keep on doing
Something or the other
Either read or blog
Or any random thing
And then I realized
I hate waiting
Is it because
I have always been waiting
My whole life
Waiting for good food
Waiting for good times
Waiting for good earnings
Waiting for good life
Waiting for blissful life
And it struck me
I am such a naive person
That the above is indeed true
I am waiting
And hence I hate waiting
So I guess time is here
To take steps
Even though they take you back
But it will be a new place
Where you will be standing
Than the old one
So waiting is good
But waiting for important
Things to happen
Is the most disastrous step
So keep bad things and
Bad people in waiting
As they won’t be able to
Grasp you and your smile
In their vicious clutches
And keep moving forward

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P.S.: Tonight’s pick is Hurt lovers of Blue 🙂 Goodnight and hope we all have a great weekend ahead before Christmas ❤